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Quick Break: You Make the Choice

Both Quick Break exercises encourage you to make the choice that is right for you. First, watch the inspiring video, Enjoy the Ride and select an affirmation and incorporate it into your day. Then, take a humor break, and select one of the jokes in the sidebar and share it with someone.

Better Tomorrows Program

When a relationship fills your life with stress and pain, how can you find peace again? How can you repair a stressful relationship with your adult child, parent, partner, sibling, friend, neighbor, or co-worker? In the Better Tomorrows Program you will find answers to those questions and more.

Check out the program and look forward to the possibility of relationships that can be joyful, peaceful, and rewarding, even though that may seem at the moment to be an impossibility.

Visitor's Survey

Receive the first two chapters of Ask Yourself Questions and Change Your Life free — plus the chance to win a print copy of the book! just by taking two or three minutes to answer a questionnaire.

Ten Questions Worth Considering

Read this revised version of the new feature and send me the name and contact information for someone whose answers you would like to hear. I'll be interviewing him or her over the telephone and recording it for online listening and a transcription you can read. Perhaps you, yourself, would like to be interviewed. Let me know in the Contact Us form.

Articles and Book Reviews

Are You Too Sensitive?

Relationship experts Joyce and Barry Vissell ask the question, Are you too sensitive? According to them, maybe we need to see this question in a different light.

Finding Grace: Susan Boyle's Gift

Author Donna VanLiere explores what is to be learned from one woman who stood on stage and blew away allof our preconceived expectations.

Permission to Feel

Tal Ben-Shahar, author of The Pursuit of Perfect: How to Stop Chasing Perfection and Start Living a Richer, Happier Life points out that while it's sometimes necessary to "keep certain emotions out of sight (when we're on the street), it's harmful to try to keep them out of mind (when we are alone)."

Meeting a Grandson I Wasn't Sure I Had

This is an excellent illustration of the complexity of many family relationships today. And it also shows how the Internet can play a role in bringing families together.

Busy Women Can Be Mindful Too AND Guilt-free Mindfulness

Sue Patton Thoele suggests that people like her, who are trying to live mindfully, might make better progress if they "started a new 12-step program called SAA: Stimulation Addicts Anonymous." Well, if it feels as though you, too, could use such a support group, you will appreciate this excerpt from her book, The Mindful Woman: Gentle Practices for Restoring Calm, Finding Balance, and Opening Your Heart.

A Woman's Call to the Ministry

This is the first chapter of A Church of Her Own: What Happens When a Woman Takes the Pulpit by Sarah Sentilles, who shows us how committed women must be if they are to lead a congregation.

Working Mothers: Having Multiple Roles

How are some working moms able to balance raising children and holding down a job? This article, by a therapist who is also a mother, explores how some are able to handle multiple roles successfully.

Hidden Fear of Abandonment

Barry and Joyce Vissell, a husband and wife marriage counseling team, point out that while sometimes the fear of abandonment is more obvious in one person than in another, if you look deeper, you will see that we all experience this fear. They offer a way to help one another find healing of this common problem in life.

Recent Blog Entries You May Have Missed

The Power of Words offers an award-winning video that demonstrates the impact words can have on our actions

Brief Notes for the Fourth of July encourages you to consider carefully what you really mean by patriotism

Accepting Our Parents' Blessings When Our Parents Are Less Than Perfect explores the difficulty of genuinely wishing parents a happy Mother's Day or Father's Day when we hold onto resentments of the past.

Stopping Perfectionism Takes Time uses my experience to show how difficult it is to recognize when we are going overboard.

Taxpayer's Challenge: A simplified version of the Tax-and-Spend Game

An E-mail Challenge for all of us who are tempted to forward an e-mail without checking the facts.

Additional Material Presented in the Latest Newsletter (in case you aren't a subscriber)

NOTE: You can always read archived newsletters

Getting our brains ready for the new age introduces you to the new Imagery section, now titled Exercising the Right Side of Your Brain, Part One of Images and Symbols: The Glue of Habit, the Lubricant of Change. Read the first part of this book online and look for the announcement of the manual created for therapists, coaches, and their clients.

Catalina Nocturn is the chosen picture for the Stepping Into Pictures feature

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